Will it be possible for me to escape!?

My mother is nearly 50 years old and has the most immature, sickening boyfriend. We've always had trouble financially because of my father's addictions, but once they seperated, my mother, sister, and I finally seemed to have our heads above water.



We lived in a nice condo but 6 months after the divorce was finalized my mom was introduced to ~online dating~. The guy moved in 6 months later (after meeting only 3 times irl. I was 13, my sister was 19..really responsible decision on my mother's part). Since then everything's gone downhill. He can't keep a job (at Pizza Hut and Dominos..) for longer than 7 months, I found marijuana growing in his closet, has no teeth (..I'm serious).



My mom finally kicked him out after he couldn't keep a job and we had no place to live. We moved into a nice townhouse about one year ago, and he's back living with just my mom and I since about 4 months ago.

He smells, is always locked in my mom's bedroom. I only venture downstairs to feed myself.Will it be possible for me to escape!?
Your are not awful and selfish for wanting to be better than your mom. Right now, your mom sounds like she is more concerned with the scumbag boyfriend than she is about her children, which in my eyes, makes her not such a great mom. I think that if you continue to use the bad things that are going on right now as a tool to want to make yourself a better life than what your mom is having at this moment, than that is great and you will find that you will not be living pay check to pay check and you will not end up having some strange guy moving into your home. If this was my mother, I would ask her what she is thinking. She knows this guy can't hold a job, she knows that he is basically a waste of space. She could do and deserves much better. You and your sister deserve much better.Will it be possible for me to escape!?
maybe you should live with your dad even tho he has addictions its gotta be better than living with this idiot. I can't believe your mom would put you through that.Will it be possible for me to escape!?
good decision to stay away from the guy...ur mom on the other hand is so lonely...self esteem on a real low, to get bac wit such a sad guy...why dont u somehow fix her up with someone else? or one day say there is a lil party/picnic/get together at ur friend place...and only parents are supposed to come...maybe she can meet a better person there?

i mean cmon! think...im sure u'll come up with something, that wud really be great!

apart from that, if ur studies are occupying most of ur time, stay locked in ur room as u have been doing...its the safest bet for now....wish ur sis cud help...but i guess she's tryin somethin on her own now....

hope things get a lot better!God Bless you, and keep you alert !
You have toooooooooooooooo much drama in your life at such a young age. Talk to a counselor, ask them for help!