Did I go too far with my revenge on my ex?

I am moving two states away in less than a year with two of my cousins and a friend of ours, and recently a guy friend of mine decided he wanted to come with us. When I broke this to my boyfriend, he refused to speak to me for two days, then blocked me on Facebook on the third day, effectively ending our relationship (which had been very tumultuous from the beginning anyway).



The day I found out he blocked me, I went out with a friend of mine because she recently discovered that she's pregnant and needed my help in telling the father. Eventually we wound up at her house, where we decided to order Domino's online. Thing is, my ex works there, and ironically, he ended up being the delivery-person to bring our food. We paid him and took our food, and then my friend proceeded to curse him out, refuse to tip him, and slam the door in his face. She then proceeded to write an extremely negative review of his performance in which she mentioned the dirty look he shot me when he saw me behind her and his general bad attitude; the store called when she set it, and she elaborated on what had happened (we were unable to fully explain the situation due to a character limit in the review). Apparently the manager led her to believe that he would be fired, so she told me that this was the case. I considered it unintentional payback and went about my business.



However, I found out later from a coworker of his that when confronted, he explained his side of things and was backed up by someone with whom I once had a f***-buddy relationship (and from what I know of them, it was most likely something like "she's a crazy b**** and was probably trying to set me up"); as a result, he wasn't fired after all. I'd known I would be hearing from him concerning this, and I was right; about five minutes after I found out he hadn't been fired, I received a text from him saying that he was sorry for what he'd done, to please stop trying to get him fired, and asking if we could talk later about our issues. I flat-out told him that I did not believe his apology, that no one had been trying to get him fired and that I had had no clue what would happen (which was true), and that if he wanted to talk, that was fine, but that what he'd done was extremely messed up; there has been no word from him since.



I already can never order from that Domino's under my name or to my address again given that this is just part of a very bad history I have with the employees there; I've either slept with them or had issues with them in the past that were never resolved. So karma pretty much bit me in the a**. But did I go too far or did he deserve it for what he did?Did I go too far with my revenge on my ex?
Personally I don't think you did anything that was out of line. It was your friend who proceeded to send the negative review. If anything, I think he was in the wrong for overreacting to something that could've been dealt with in a different manner. I think he pretty much deserved what he got.

As for the Dominos problem, just order from a different store. I don't think I would want to order from a place, knowing that a majority of the employees hate my guts. Unless you want extra spit as a topping.
No he didnt deserve your childish acts, grow up, sad he doesnt know he is better off without you, thats why women have a bad rep, too much drama, go on with your life, he is lucky your leavingDid I go too far with my revenge on my ex?
You have gone too far with lots of people and situations. Maybe seeing a therapist for impulse control would help you. Good luck!! : /
You sound like a true winner... yep.Did I go too far with my revenge on my ex?
yes
no but complain to there head office about the way they treated you
Yes you went too far. It鈥檚 understandable for your Ex to be upset you are moving in general, but with another guy... I think it鈥檚 typical for him to be even more upset. He may not have handled it well, but to allow your friend to get him fired is immature. You are now messing with his lively hood (income), especially now a days, when everyone is looking for work.



I would have just moved on and been the better person.
awesome :D

but no i don't think

you went to far



i pet sitting for my ex

and i accidently killed his turtle

(i swear it was a accident)

then you can image what happened next
If you didnt want to start something you should have just told your friend to stop making a mess. Being there and not stopping her means you prettty much did it as well. As for not trying to fire him, whats the point of making a call like that and trying to make him look bad. Dominios isnt a great job and once someone hears bad information on that person, it is super easy to get fired from a place like that. Dont try to act innocent because you were just as bad as your friend.



And i dont think he really did anything wrong to you with his apology. Obviously he had to make up a story because he didnt want to get fired. You just need to take his word for what it is and meet up and talk about it. But dont pretend and blame everything on your friend.



He did break up with you in a stupid way, and you can be angry about that, but revenge just hurts everyone so its not worth it.



Hope you guys work it out and stop holding grudges because its really not worth it if your moving away anyways clear things up first.
You say you Karma came back at you and your still trying to see if what you did was enough to get him back? Let it be Karma will set everything right. So put on your big girl panties and move on.